Happiness and Work Are Not Mutually Exclusive
“A job is a job. I find happiness outside of work in my personal life.”
Your employee, today
Happiness and work for most people are mutually exclusive terms. Even the layman definitions are unfair: work is the time and effort you put in to receive a wage, and happiness covers all the enjoyable things experienced outside of work - family, hobbies, relaxation. In other words, fun things. There’s a clear boundary between work and happiness.
For most, work and happiness rarely intersect - a depressing thought when you consider how much of a day we spend at work. It’s the sort of thing that’s enough to tap into the deepest of existential questions. Most people work out of obligation, to provide for dependents, or just to survive. Rarely do people get to do what they love for work.
Yet, at Friday Pulse, we not only claim that happiness at work is a real thing, but it’s also achievable within your organization.
Happiness is a catch-all word for a whole array of positive emotions - some of which are certainly about enjoying yourself and not thinking very hard. Other emotions such as curiosity, enthusiasm and interest have different energies to them that positively impact work.
Making work a positive and happy experience isn’t the same as making it a laugh-out-loud fun zone all the time - although laughter has been proven to bring people together. Neither is it about throwing lavish parties in an attempt to raise office morale. These temporary solutions may bring short bursts of positive emotions, but they won’t create lasting happiness at work.
There is a place for fun at work, but it has to be balanced against the aim of creating a productive environment.
To use a metaphor, happiness at work isn’t a flash in the pan - it’s a slow burn, continuous process, that extends over weeks, months, and even years. Yet, happiness at work creates energy, sustains itself and builds momentum. It’s about creating a culture that brings out the best in people, keeping them motivated, innovative and engaged in what they do at work. In our other article, we talked about how employees are rarely engaged. Happiness is a way to get these people back.
Happiness and Your Bottom Line

Nic Marks
Founder & CEO, FridayPulse™
Over the last 25 years, Friday Pulse Founder & CEO, Nic Marks has been fascinated with people and data - especially data about people. He believes emotions like happiness could be tracked and quantified. His research led him to advise the British government on measuring wellbeing and to create the Happy Planet Index, which he gave a TED Talk on in 2010. Based on original research into the science of happiness, Nic and the team at Friday Pulse have identified five positive behaviours that are the key drivers of happiness that can improve your company’s culture:

Be Fair

Connect

Empower

Challenge

Inspire
Unhappiness easily sets in when one or more of these factors are out of balance. However, external events can just as easily impact happiness. The disruption from COVID resulted in great strife. COVID affected us all differently. Some were able to work remotely and consequently worked to the point of burnout, while others were furloughed or made redundant. Office policies may have required people to return from remote working before they were ready, leading to resentment.
While COVID changed the world of work, it hasn’t changed human motivation. In this light, The Five Ways to Happiness at Work are a lens through which we can take stock of our organizations as we reintegrate our workforce. When an organization fails to take these drivers seriously, unhappiness and resentment can quickly set in.
Even in a COVID and post-COVID world, recent headlines show the top reasons why people quit their jobs: they’re often overworked, not recognised for their achievements, trapped and unable to grow or learn new skills. Employees who leave often talk about how isolated they are, how toxic the work environment was, how office politics are a nightmare, how they’re micromanaged, bored or disconnected from the mission of their employer.
All of these problems have their roots in ignoring the five drivers of happiness.
The impact of not taking happiness seriously is readily apparent in the high turnover and low engagement rates that businesses and governments report each year. During COVID everyone’s happiness has been under severe pressure. However, Friday Pulse clients, who are all businesses that take employee wellbeing seriously, fared much better than others. While many businesses languished, our clients were able to return to happiness levels 24% higher than their peers.
If it’s just a job to employees, they probably won’t give their best effort. Research shows that improving happiness at work leads to a workforce that’s more motivated, more innovative, and has better internal relationships. This results in better retention rates, better customer service, enhanced performance, higher social value and, ultimately, a better bottom line.
The Five Ways to Happiness at Work
“No one cares about me at work. I'm replaceable. I work so hard and don't get to see my family. But none of the work I do matters. It's not making the world a better place. It's just profit to them.”
Your employee, today

Connect: It all starts with people
Friendships. Cooperation. A sense of belonging.
It’s much easier to do great work when we get along well with our colleagues. Teams who encourage, support and appreciate each other make problem solving, innovation and success possible.
For almost everyone, working involves some level of interaction with other people. The quality of those interactions and the extent to which they are supportive, encouraging and appreciative is an important influence on how people feel at work. Good working relationships support cooperation, collaboration, higher performance and help create a pleasant working environment.
Positive relationships with others help people cope with the demands of the job. More fundamentally, good relationships are a basic psychological necessity. We need to feel that people care about us and to feel close to others. This applies as much to work as to our other relationships.
Team relationships
Inter-team cooperation
Friendships at work

Be Fair: The foundation of a happy place to work
Respect. Appreciation. Space for people’s life outside work.
Being treated with fairness and respect is fundamental to happier work. People flourish when organizations are responsive to their needs and value the energy they put in. Teams flourish when colleagues appreciate one another.
Fairness at work can be thought of in two ways: distributional fairness (fair outcomes), and procedural fairness (fair processes). This is because people care about the actual outcomes of any decision or procedure and the conditions and processes that lead to the outcomes.
For example, we may be more likely to accept a decision we disagree with if we think the decision-making process is fair than if we believe the process is unfair. Both distributional and procedural fairness have been shown to relate positively to work happiness.
Respect
Appreciation
Work-life balance

Empower: Give people the freedom to use their strengths
Trust. Delegate. The opportunity to self-organize.
Sharing responsibility and playing to people’s strengths can unleash amazing potential in organizations. When people can be themselves and use their judgement, they do great work.
Studies show that people oriented towards autonomy and intrinsic motivation have higher self-esteem, better interpersonal relationships and greater general wellbeing than those who are extrinsically motivated. Research papers - including a meta-analysis of 28 studies covering over 15,000 respondents - have found a correlation between job autonomy and overall job satisfaction.
Strengths use
Freedom to be yourself
Influence decisions

Challenge: Professional development fosters a sense of achievement
Stretch. Enjoyment. Setting realistic expectations.
People are happy in their jobs when they are absorbed and progressing their work. By making jobs interesting, organizations pull people into spaces where they learn and achieve great things.
An employee’s perception of their opportunities for developing new skills is a strong indicator of their job satisfaction and wellbeing. It shows that they are invested in their work and are seeking to improve at it. Some researchers even go so far as to say that without some opportunities for learning, thriving at work becomes impossible.
Learning
Creativity
Feedback

Inspire: employees want to feel they are making a difference
Pride. Purpose. Being part of a bigger picture.
Doing a job that we feel is genuinely worthwhile is a great source of motivation in our lives and can sustain us through challenging times. Seeing beyond narrow business goals to how we help other people makes work more meaningful.
A sense of purpose comes from feeling like our efforts at work are worthwhile and is vital for feeling motivated. We may feel our work is worthwhile if it contributes to improving the world outside us; whether that’s our office, our family, our organization, the place we live or the wider world.
Accomplishments
Worthwhile work
Organizational pride
Powerful Combinations
The Five Ways to Happiness at Work are synergetic and interconnected.
For example, workers who have good relationships with their colleagues and managers may find it easier to ask about learning new skills. Or they might feel more empowered to shape their job to suit their strengths and knowledge better. Meanwhile, those who have a good work-life balance and feel more energised may find it easier to become absorbed by a task and derive a sense of accomplishment from doing it.
Interventions to improve people’s working environment can be even more effective if they span two or more of The Five Ways to Happiness at Work. A team training day, by way of example, could be classified as a combination of ‘Connect’, ‘Empower’, ‘Challenge’ and ‘Inspire’.
These links reflect the complexity and dynamic nature of our wellbeing in general. Different parts of our life influence how we feel and function in many different ways and are also likely to feed back into other areas.
Someone who enjoys strong social relationships and is autonomous is in a better position to shape their surroundings than someone without these advantages. There is also evidence that positive emotions can influence other parts of our lives in two ways.
They ‘broaden’ our repertoire of possible responses to a given situation. A happier person is more flexible, more creative, more open to experiences, as well as better at building relationships. Secondly, experiencing positive emotions regularly over time ‘builds’ our confidence, self-esteem and resilience. This is called the ‘broaden and build theory’ of positive emotions, based on research by Professor Barbara Fredrickson.
The whole is greater than the sum of its parts when The Five Ways are applied in combination. Our scientifically robust approach demystifies culture by profiling what organizations need to focus on, giving clients the insight to drive change for the better.
How to Apply The Five Ways to Happiness
But here’s the catch. Do your employees trust you?
It’s easy to say that you’re going to make happiness a priority at work. To implement practices that cultivate happiness is the real challenge. There can be a sense of distrust from employees that follow new initiatives. It takes time to win over employees with the vision. Shifting the focus to happiness is no different - in fact, it may result in even more cynicism since happiness is not a word commonly associated with work.
Remember, your employees are smart. You hired them for a reason. And they will see through any shallow initiative or half-hearted effort to win them over. Honesty, sincerity and genuine, consistent efforts, on the other hand, will bring about real change in the workplace.
There are four basic steps to applying The Five Ways to Happiness at Work:
Start where people are
Change and progress starts with your team. Happiness isn’t just a theory; it’s something tangible that begins with small actions. Get to know your team members. Find out what they do for fun, what their interests are and about their families.
Focus on building an emotional connection with the target audience.
We’ve found that teams are resistant to change unless they feel like their leaders actually care about them. Forge a real connection with your team. If you have something in common, bond over it. You’ll find that when people are treated as people and not employees, a lot more can get done.
Be positive, upbeat and aspirational — and seek to avoid "don’t do" messages
People respond better to positive goals rather than negative reprimands. Remember, you’re not just trying to get more productivity out of your team - though that may be a by-product - you are trying to help them enjoy their work more.
Exchange — there must be a clear benefit for the individual employee as well as the organization for change to occur
There has to be a good answer to “What’s in it for me?” that your team members can understand. Fortunately, overall happiness is usually a good result, but you have to be able to articulate why a happier workplace is a good thing for your team members.
Building Happy Teams with Friday Pulse
The Five Ways to Happiness at Work should be considered a framework or ‘rule of thumb’ checklist rather than a discrete set of categories - areas interrelate, overlap and affect each other. Nevertheless, all of them are present in companies with great cultures, because they are essential to happiness and thus, success in the workplace.
The Culture Profile
Friday Pulse applies The Five Ways to Happiness at Work through a quarterly, 15-question Culture Profile survey. Questions in the Culture Profile help business leaders determine where to act by identifying key strengths and weaknesses on the team and organizational level. It highlights positive and negative subcultures that exist in your organization and provides actionable insights so you can put positive routines into place at the individual, team and organization level.
We’ve designed the Culture Profile as a quarterly in-depth survey that measures how you’re progressing on the five ways. It uncovers practical insights and actions that improve culture and employee’s experience of work.
The Happiness KPI™
Another way we work to improve culture is by helping businesses monitor employees’ experience of their work-life with a Happiness KPI™. This allows leaders to track the impact their initiatives are having on employee experience. Every week we ask employees how they have felt that week; once rated on a scale of 1-5 (from ‘very unhappy’ to ‘very happy’), we collate this employee experience data to highlight how teams are doing in real-time - allowing organizations to update and adjust their plans according to employee reactions.
The Origins of the Five Ways to Happiness
The Five Ways to Happiness were developed from a combination of academic and empirical research. In 2008, Friday Pulse founder and CEO Nic Marks worked with longstanding colleague and collaborator Dr Jody Aked to create the very popular Five Ways to Wellbeing for the UK Government’s Foresight programme to boost mental resources and happiness. Nic went on to speak about this project in his popular 2010 TED talk.
Settling on ‘five’ ways was a deliberate move. It built on the widespread public health dictum in the UK that people should eat five portions of fruit and vegetables a day for the good of their physical health. This meant ‘five’ was already perceived in the U.K. as a ‘healthy’ number. Additionally, a five-point list is convenient. Short enough to be easily remembered, it provided a perfect structure for the framework.
During the years that followed Five Ways to Wellbeing, Nic designed several surveys on workplace happiness with nationally representative samples in the USA, U.K., Mexico, Peru, Chile, Ecuador, Finland and the Netherlands. With each survey, he honed his overall understanding of the drivers of happiness and refined the questions to measure these drivers with increasing accuracy.
In 2016, Nic had the opportunity to build further on his thinking in this area. As a recognised expert in happiness, he was approached by global recruitment agency Robert Half to design a survey to support its Work Happy campaign. This led to probably the most comprehensive international survey ever conducted on happiness at work. Its representative sample of over 22,000 workers spanned 12 sectors and eight nations.
Evidence from this research was distilled into a clear set of achievable actions that businesses can adopt to achieve a happier workplace. The resulting paper took these actions beyond the classroom. It gave real-world examples of practices undertaken by organizations across the globe to achieve and foster happy, productive and sustainable businesses.
Further refinement has taken us to The Five Ways to Happiness as they stand today. Think of them more as your pathway to improvement. We’re continuously researching the five ways, and we’ll undoubtedly be sharing insights and improvements with our clients on an ongoing basis.
Appendix
Theories and Insights That Underpin Our Work
Theories and Insights That Underpin Our Work
- Abraham Maslow’s 1943 Theory of Human Motivation proposes five human needs people are motivated to achieve. These needs are arranged in hierarchies so that the appearance of one need depends on the satisfaction of another. Starting at the bottom of the hierarchy: physiological needs; safety needs; love needs; esteem needs; and the need for self-actualisation. The latter three in particular are relevant to work.
- In 2007, Peter Warr, a professor of work psychology, wrote a comprehensive review of the relationships between aspects of work and wellbeing. He lists 12 environmental features in job settings that provide an overarching explanation of happiness levels in any role: opportunity for personal control; opportunity for skill use; externally generated goals; variety; contact with others; availability of money; physical security; valued social position; supportive supervision; career outlook; and equity.
- Self-Determination Theory (SDT), based on empirical research about what motivates people, proposes that three universal psychological needs must be satisfied for us to experience high wellbeing: autonomy, competence and relatedness. Workplaces that promote the satisfaction of these needs enhance people’s intrinsic motivation and lead to better performance, job satisfaction and wellbeing.
- Daniel Pink’s bestselling book Drive: The surprising truth about what motivates us builds on evidence from behavioural science to propose three elements of true motivation: autonomy, mastery, and purpose.
- PERMA is a theory developed by positive psychologist Martin Seligman. It proposes five essential building blocks of human flourishing: positive emotion; engagement; relationships; meaning; and accomplishment.
- Tony Hsieh, CEO of Zappos, wrote about making happiness at work the central goal of his business in Delivering Happiness, proposing a framework with four elements: perceived control; perceived progress; connectedness; and vision/meaning.
- Teresa Amabile, Professor of Business Administration at Harvard Business School, and her colleague Steven Kramerpropose the Progress Principle: to be happy and productive, people need to feel like they’re making progress, supported by managers through catalysts (clear goals, autonomy, resources) and nourishers (respect, recognition, emotional comfort).
- Before Happiness, by positive psychologist Shawn Achor, includes five hidden keys to achieving success, spreading happiness, and sustaining positive change: the most valuable reality, success mapping, positive inception, the x-spot, and noise cancelling.
Key books drawn on for this paper
- Achor, S. (2010). The Happiness Advantage: The Seven Principles of Positive Psychology that Fuel Success and Performance at Work. New York: Crown Business.
- Amabile, T., and Kramer, S. (2011). The Progress Principle: Using Small Wins to Ignite Joy, Engagement, and Creativity at Work. Boston, Mass.: Harvard Business Review Press.
- Fredrickson, B.L. (2011) Positivity: Ground-breaking Research to Release your Inner Optimist and Thrive. Oneworld Publications.
- Hsieh, T. 2010. Delivering Happiness: A Path to Profits, Passion, and Purpose. New York: Business Plus.
- Marks, N (2011). The Happiness Manifesto. TED books.
- Pink, D.H. (2009) Drive: The Surprising Truth About What Motivates Us. New York: Riverhead Books.
- Seligman, M. E. P. (2011). Flourish: A Visionary New Understanding of Happiness and Wellbeing. Free Press.
- Warr, P. (2007) Work, Happiness, and Unhappiness. Mahwah, New Jersey: Lawrence Erlbaum Associates.
Other articles
- Abdallah, S., Mahony, S., Marks, N., Michaelson, J., Seaford, C., Stoll, L., & Thompson, S. (2011). Measuring our Progress: The Power of Wellbeing. The New Economics Foundation (NEF).
- Aked, J., Marks, N., Cordon, C. & Thompson, S. (2008). Five Ways to Wellbeing: A Report Presented to the Foresight Project on Communicating the Evidence Base for Improving People's Wellbeing. London: New Economics Foundation.
- Csikszentmihalyi, M. (1990) Flow: The Psychology of Optimal Experience. New York: Harper and Row.
- Colquitt, J. A., Conlon, D. E., Wesson, M. J., Porter, C. O., and Ng, K. Y. (2001). Justice at the millennium: A meta-analytic review of 25 years of organisational justice research. Journal of Applied Psychology 86: 425-445.
- Department of Business, Innovation and Skills (2014) Does Worker Wellbeing Affect Workplace Performance? London: The Stationery Office.
- Eurofound (2013) Abdallah, S., Stoll, L., and Eiffe, F. Monitoring Quality of Life in Europe: Subjective Well-being. Luxembourg: Publications Office of the European Union.
- Frey, B.S., Benz, M. and Stutzer, A. (2004) Introducing Procedural Utility: Not Only What, but Also How Matters. Journal of Institutional and Theoretical Economics 160(3): 377-401.
- Ryan, R. M., & Deci, E. L. (2000). Self-determination Theory and the Facilitation of Intrinsic Motivation, Social Development, and Wellbeing. American Psychologist, 55, 68-78.
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